Wounds to wisdom, darkness to light is the heart of In Dee Light. The “wounds” are the old stories and survival patterns we carry from childhood and life experience—patterns that may have once protected you, but no longer serve you, and often show up most clearly in how you handle money through stress, avoidance, or self-sabotage. My work is to help you bring those patterns into awareness, release what’s outdated, and replace it with wisdom that supports who you are now—so you can move from constant worry, fear, and pressure into calm clarity, confident choices, and a steady sense of peace in your finances and your life.

Clarity.
Support. Compassion.
I work with high-achieving adults who are ready to change the pattern—not just the numbers. My commitment is to give you a clear plan, steady support, and practical tools that address both the financial strategy and the emotional drivers behind money decisions. You’ll be met with respect, privacy, and direct guidance—so you can move forward with confidence.
You get practical, Ramsey-aligned financial coaching paired with tools like EFT/Tapping and nervous-system support to create change that actually sticks.
Every step is grounded in measurable actions so you always know what to do next and how to track progress.
This is confidential support for people who carry a lot—professionally and personally—without shame, exposure, or lectures.
I help you follow through consistently, address setbacks quickly, and stay focused until your new habits become your new normal.
If you’ve tried to “fix” your money by forcing discipline and it hasn’t lasted, that isn’t proof that you’re broken—it’s evidence that you’ve been operating under real pressure for a long time. Most high-achieving adults are carrying more than anyone sees: responsibility, expectations, and the constant demand to perform. When stress is high, the brain and nervous system default to familiar protection strategies—avoidance, overworking, overspending, perfectionism, freezing—not because you’re weak, but because your system is trying to keep you safe.
You’re also not alone. Many successful people quietly live with the same cycle: stress → avoidance → spending → shame, even while looking “fine” from the outside. The good news is your mind is stronger than you think—because these patterns are learned, and what’s learned can be re-trained. When we work together, we use that strength to build a steadier internal foundation, so calm becomes accessible and follow-through becomes consistent.
This work isn’t about blaming the past or pushing harder. It’s about creating a better process—one that respects your real life, integrates emotions and numbers, and helps you make financial decisions from clarity instead of fear. You’re not broken, and it’s not too late.

Real change begins when you feel seen, heard, and respected—without shame. In our work together, we’ll connect the dots between your money choices and your emotional patterns, so you understand what’s driving the stress, avoidance, or self-doubt instead of blaming yourself for it. With a personalized, practical approach, I’ll teach you simple tools to regulate your nervous system (like EFT/Tapping, vagal nerve techniques, and grounding) alongside clear financial steps, so you can respond differently in the moments that used to derail you. Each session is designed to build calm resilience and confident follow-through, so you can handle real life—and your finances—with steadiness.
Hope starts here because you don’t need a perfect past—or perfect discipline—to create a different future. If you’re carrying financial stress, debt anxiety, or quiet fear about retirement, we start with what’s real, right now, and build from there. Together, we’ll calm the emotional noise, clarify the numbers, and map a focused next step you can actually follow. No shame—just a steady plan forward.
With 9 years of experience as a Certified EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Practitioner, I specialize in working with trauma, emotional wounds, and the stress patterns that keep people stuck. I’m certified through EFT Universe, and I use EFT in a structured, client-centered way to help you reduce emotional intensity, build nervous-system stability, and create lasting change—especially in the areas where fear, shame, or overwhelm tend to show up most, including money.
I hold a Bachelor of Science in Metaphysics, which gives you an expanded framework for understanding how internal patterns shape external outcomes. I integrate universal principles—including the Law of Attraction and Law of Vibration—in a grounded, practical way to help you shift identity-level beliefs, align your focus and energy with your goals, and make decisions from clarity rather than fear. This isn’t about wishful thinking; it’s about learning how your mindset, emotions, and intention influence what you consistently create—especially with money and personal leadership.
I’m trained in vagus nerve support and nervous system regulation, which matters because so many money decisions are made in fight, flight, or freeze—not from calm, clear thinking. When your reptilian (survival) brain is running the show, it’s easy to react with avoidance, urgency, or self-sabotage, even when you “know better.” I help you shift out of survival mode and back into your thinking brain, using simple, repeatable tools that create safety in your body—so you can make steady, confident choices and follow through without white-knuckling it.
I’m trained in Eden Energy Method Medicine across Fundamentals and Advanced topics, which adds a powerful layer of support when stress is stored in the body and won’t shift through logic alone. Using simple techniques to balance the body’s energy systems (like meridians, chakras, and the aura), I help you reset from overwhelm, restore vitality, and strengthen emotional resilience. This work is practical and body-based—designed to help you feel more grounded, clear, and stable so you can stay consistent with the changes you’re making in your life and finances.
I use Sound Healing as a gentle, powerful way to help your body release stress and return to balance. Because tension and anxiety live in the nervous system—not just in your thoughts—sound can help quiet mental noise, soften emotional intensity, and bring you back to a grounded state where clear decisions are easier. It’s especially supportive when you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or carrying pressure you can’t quite explain, and it complements the practical coaching work by helping you integrate change at a deeper level.
As a Ramsey Solutions Preferred Master Financial Coach, I bring a proven, step-by-step framework to help you get out of debt, rebuild stability, and become retirement-ready—without confusion or guesswork. You’ll get clear guidance on budgeting, cash-flow planning, debt payoff strategy, and next-right financial decisions, all tailored to your real life and priorities. My approach is direct, practical, and judgment-free, so you can make steady progress and feel in control of your money again.
This work is not one-size-fits-all, because you’re not one-size-fits-all. We’ll choose the energy modality (or combination of modalities) that resonates with you—whether that’s EFT/Tapping, vagus nerve regulation, Eden Method techniques, sound healing, or a more mindset-based metaphysical approach—based on what your body responds to and what your goals require. Some clients want quick emotional relief so they can take action; others need deeper nervous system support to feel safe enough to change patterns. Either way, I tailor the process to you, so your healing and your financial progress feel natural, grounded, and sustainable.

"I was successful by every measure but completely burned out, working 70-hour weeks because I couldn't slow down or rest. Dee showed me I was carrying inherited stress and generational trauma that wasn't even mine, and the energy work helped me release these patterns. Now I've tripled my income while working half the hours because the driving anxiety just lifted. If you're successful but exhausted and can't slow down, this isn't about time management - it's about clearing the energetic patterns keeping you in overdrive.."

Business Owner

"I was $190,000 in debt with five maxed-out credit cards—and my adult kids were still spending my money like it would never run out.
Working with Dee, I finally understood the 'why' behind my choices and created a plan that worked. In 9 months, I've paid off $95,000, closed two credit cards, and I'm on track to be debt-free in 14 months.
I didn't just fix my finances. I got my self-worth back."

CIO

"Growing up poor left scars I didn't know I had. Hand-me-downs, ridicule at school, parents who 'didn't understand'—I promised myself I'd never feel that shame again.
So as an adult, I bought everything. New car, big house, designer clothes. My husband stayed quiet until he couldn't anymore. Then he left—and I was alone with three kids, a mortgage, and $250,000 in debt I'd created trying to prove I was enough.
Dee helped me see what I couldn't: I wasn't spending for things, I was spending to heal. We created a plan that addressed both—the debt and the pain beneath it.
Today I'm debt-free, my kids have security, and I've finally let go of the shame. I don't need to prove anything anymore."

Registered Nurse






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My mission is to help high earners over 40 break the emotional money patterns behind overspending, avoidance, and self-sabotage—so they can get out of debt, feel safe with money, and build a clear plan they’ll actually follow.
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