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Welcome to In Dee Light - How I became Unstuck and Started Thriving and How You can too!
Do you feel stuck in an area of your life, as if something is holding you back and just won't let go?
You think about moving forward, but you're not sure how or where it begin. It's frustrating and disheartening.
Maybe you feel shut down, depressed, or like a failure because you can’t seem to achieve your dreams or complete even small tasks.
Perhaps you feel lost or overwhelmed, unable to find a starting point. You might feel like your own worst enemy -- like given a 50/50 chance, you always seem to pick the wrong option.
I know exactly what that’s like because I’ve been there. For me, I was stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage with my weight and my dreams. I had big dreams, but I lacked the courage and drive to bring them to life. I felt trapped in a catch-22 and didn’t even know where to start
It left me feeling like a failure.
I tried everything—countless programs, books, and workshops—but nothing worked. For years, I remained stuck. Eventually, I lost the energy and hope to even try.
But after thousands of dollars and years of studying, I finally discovered the root cause that was keeping me stuck—and the solution that allowed me to finally move forward, easily and with confidence!
Let me share my story with you. Maybe it will resonate and show you that you’re not alone, and there is a way out.
My Story -
Childhood Programming
I was born (obviously!) I spent the first 18 years being programmed by my family, school and social environment.
That’s not unique—we’re all programmed by our surroundings in one way or another.
But what is programming, really? It’s the thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes we adopt based on the environment we live in. It shapes our perception of who we are and creates a self-fulfilling prophecy that dictates our actions and reactions.
For me, that programming led to beliefs that I was stupid, ugly, and destined to fail. I was bullied by siblings and classmates. My parents, concerned about a head injury I’d suffered, were convinced I’d never be able to live independently. I was overweight and had a wardrobe that consisted mostly of “grandma clothes.” I felt out of place everywhere I went—like I just didn’t fit in.
The result? Childhood PTSD and cripplingly low self-esteem. I became a loner, distrusting everyone and believing that I could only rely on myself.
I hit an all-time low in my 50s.
I was exhausted from living a life defined by the values and expectations others had placed on me. I wanted to break free and discover my authentic self—who I really was underneath all the layers of programming. I was finally ready to change.
Can you relate?
- Do you feel depressed, limited, or stuck?
- Unloved, shut down, or unheard?
- Lost, like a failure, or overwhelmed by stress?
Maybe you’re dealing with PTSD—whether it’s from major life events (big "T" trauma) or smaller ones that have piled up over time (small "t" trauma). Trauma is trauma. It can come from:
- Childhood issues
- Bullying or feeling like a social outcast
- Learning difficulties
- Survivor mentality
- Sexual, physical, or mental abuse
- And so much more…
If you identify with any of these experiences, it’s possible that your programming is keeping you stuck, repeating emotional loops that trap you in the past.
My journey of transformation began when I finally decided to break free.
For over a decade, I’ve been learning tools and techniques to break out of these loops. I’ve spent thousands of dollars and countless hours gaining knowledge and putting it into practice—finding what truly works.
Today, I live a life of peace and prosperity because I’ve reprogrammed the beliefs and patterns that held me back for so long. I’ve combined everything I’ve learned into a program that puts the power of healing in your hands—giving you the shortcut I wish I’d had.
I’ve worked with Veterans and their families, as well as others who were trapped in emotional loops just like I was.
My clients have been able to break free of their negative programming and start creating a new reality for themselves—one that’s aligned with their authentic selves and free from the past. If my program helped them, it can help you, too.
If this resonates with you, I invite you to join me for a free, one-on-one Collaboration Session. Together, we’ll identify some of your blocks and create a plan to get you unstuck. You don’t have to keep living this way—there’s hope, and I’d love to support you on your journey to healing.
